When In Rome…

You’ve probably heard the saying “when in Rome, do as the Romans do.”  It’s often used to rationalize overindulgence but the origin of the saying can actually be traced back to the 4th century AD when the Roman Empire was undergoing instability and had already split in two. St. Augustine, an early Christian saint, moved to Milan. Unlike in his previous church in Rome, he found the congregation didn’t fast on Saturdays. The older and wiser St. Ambrose, at that time the bishop of Milan, offered up some sage words: ‘when I go to Rome, I fast on Saturday, but here I do not…’

Really? When in Rome, I fast? Not “when in Rome, eat pasta and drink wine?” Hmmm. I guess we got that one all wrong.

We’ve completed the first leg of our Italian adventure, where we spent three days in the heart of Rome. We hit the ground walking on day one, knowing that we must keep moving to avoid succumbing to jet lag. After that, we only stopped moving to eat and sleep. Day One: the Pantheon, which was steps from our hotel; Trevi Fountain, cleaned and beautifully restored; the Spanish Steps; we even stumbled across the Presidential Palace. Day Two: the Vatican Museums, the Sistine Chapel, and St. Peter’s Basilica.  Day Three: the Colosseum, the Forum Ruins, and the Borghese Gallery.  No taxis, buses, or trains – just walking, which we believe is always the best way to experience any city. 

In between sights, there was pasta, gelato, Roman lamb, beautiful vegetables, cheese, and wine.  Oh, the wine! Every night Bev would say “only a glass for me” and I heard “let’s order a bottle”.  I  have a hearing loss and sometimes my hearing aids do interpretive listening.

And did I mention the coffee? Espresso to die for.  Café latte like you’ve never had in your life (if you order a latte, Starbucks style, you will get a cup of milk). Speaking of Starbucks, they do not exist here.  Nor can you order a vente, a grande, or a tall coffee. A cup of café is just a cup of coffee. If you try to order a Frappuccino, they will look at you like you’re an idiot and all of your attempts to be a subtle American will be blown.

One of the joys of travel is experiencing the local culture. In Italy, so much revolves around food. Like America, much of their economy is agricultural but unlike Americans, Italians have a deep connection to the source of their food. Except for the strategically located McDonalds catering to Americans, there are no fast food chains in Rome. If you  go out to dinner, your table is yours until you choose to leave. The waiter will not toss the check on the table saying “take your time – no hurry”, which really means “I see that you are done eating and I need to turn this table over in order to earn one-third of a living wage”. Italian dinners are leisurely and you only receive the check when you ask for it.

Interestingly though, breakfast for Italians is fast and furious. We got to see this up close in a cafe filled with locals. Upon entering, we were treated to the sounds of rapid-fire Italian, espresso makers, and cups clattering. A bar ran the full length of the cafe with the locals standing two and three deep, eating pastries wrapped in paper, throwing back espressos, and engaging in animated conversation before tossing a few euros on the bar and hurrying out.  There were a handful of tables with menus but the scene was complete chaos and we stood in the midst of it trying to figure out how to order food. We finally saw a waitress, who handed us a menu and shouted “any table!” We ordered and watched the “bar scene”, amazed at the barista’s speed and dexterity while people shouted orders. Italian baristas don’t get handed an empty cup with a computer generated sticker slapped on it telling them what to make. 

Rome is a beautiful, noisy, fascinating city full of contrasts. The Vatican receives one million euros per day from tour admissions and souvenir sales, yet there are homeless people sleeping outside its gates. The tourist sites are jam packed but if you walk two blocks, you’ll find a quiet side street with interesting shops and people. Daytime is frenetic but evenings are sedate, a time to relax and celebrate the day’s end with, what else? Food and wine.

Our hotel in the center of Rome
Greg outside of the Pantheon with about a thousand new friends
Inside the Pantheon, which was built over 2,000 years ago. An engineering feat for the ages.
The Pantheon at night. Beautiful and no tourists!
Bev wanted this bike for our cycling tour in Tuscany
Trevi Fountain. There is a sea of humanity outside of the frame
Trevi Fountain. Bev stood on the railing to get above the throng of people
Bev at the top of the Spanish Steps
Team Pea atop the Spanish Steps
Crispy cheese balls and wine. Si, per favore.
We’ll take all of the prosciutto and salami , please.
Bev might work for the Italian State Police if they gave her free cheese and wine.
Greg and our Vatican tour guide, Al.
Greg at St. Peter’s Square (Vatican). Also, apparently growing a cone out of the top of his head.
Early morning at the Colosseum. The masses had not arrived yet.
Bev inside the Colosseum, looking for the lions. Or Russell Crowe.
This man was playing “Don’t Worry, Be Happy”, wearing tight jeans and high heels. It made us smile.
These two were playing Stairway to Heaven, a rock anthem and nod to the Rock N Roll Gods. It seemed appropriate in a city filled with symbols honoring the Roman Gods.
A bicycle owned by one of the rock guitarists. Note the AC/DC logo on the box. Rock and roll is a universal language.
The horses found Bev. Her day was complete.
And then she found Elvis. Really, that’s his name.
This photo is a bit deceiving. There were dozens more customers eating and drinking at the bar. The barista is furiously making espressos and coffees.
Saw this in a shop. It summed up 90% of the tourists we saw in Rome. If millennials really want to save the world, they can start by destroying all of their selfie sticks.

16 Replies to “When In Rome…”

  1. Love reading your about your latest adventures, looks like you will have some great tips for us when we go to Italy (just as you did for France)! You two are one of my favorite couples and I love seeing how fully you two are enjoying life and each other! Keep the stories coming.

  2. Thanks for sharing. One more thing off your bucket list. Have a great time.

  3. First, my favorite 3 words ever: Crispy Cheese Balls! yum! Second, OMG I cant even walk in heels let alone stand on cobblestone playing the violin! And last, animals love us! We are like walking talking Dr Dolittles 🙂 Keep having fun you two !! Miss you love you !

  4. Oh wow what fun you both must be having!! Enjoy. Italy is on my bucket list.

    Miss you GB, you look better than ever in your retirement years!

    Ann Burghardt:)

  5. I’m assuming you are both tracing your nutrition and avoiding carbohydrates after 8 pm? Lol – thanks for sharing this great trip of yours! Arriverderci!

    1. Yes. We are avoiding carbohydrates from 8pm Eastern Daylight Time until breakfast at 7:30am Italy Time.

  6. I absolutely love your blog! I learn stuff and get to see beautiful places I can dream about visiting sometime. Excellent job Greg! You and Bev look to be having a blast-as always 🙂

  7. Awesome! Did not know you had a blog. I’m going to click the link below to get the notifications. I’ve started one at http://www.aninnocentabroad.net there are so many features that I have know idea about.

    Cheers on your travels

  8. I’ll take all the Prosciutto and salami you can bring home, lol!! And Russell Crowe if you happen to find him, lol!

  9. Love the words and the pictures my two peas in a pod! Keep up the sharing as it makes me feel I am really a part of your trip. Love, Mom

  10. So great to hear from you and happy that you are on another adventure! Dave and I visited the same places as you did in Rome. Such an amazing city…and so old and rich in history. And the food!!! I still remember how good the gelato was! Enjoy the rest of your trip! Lisa Fiano

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