A Remarkable Life

Welcome back friends. It’s been a while since we connected and a lot has happened during our prolonged absence. There was the BEST WEDDING EVER. We explored New Zealand and added to our global collection of friends. We had a Kilimanjaro reunion (minus two) in New York City. We continued to fall in love with Eastern Tennessee. We lost best friends (we will keep you in our hearts forever, Chris Werner) and, consequently, have been further and forever enriched by others. Living a life out loud doesn’t discriminate between risk and reward.

Sometimes the rewards are so big that you think “it doesn’t get any better than this” and then somehow it does. A year ago, I hit the reward lottery. We were in Queenstown, New Zealand on a two-night break in our 14 day Active New Zealand itinerary. This was the chance to explore the South Island’s largest city on our own and enjoy 36 hours schedule-free. We spent the first night doing laundry. We ordered room service and slept in a big soft bed. Fantastic! On February 21st (22nd in the States) we rose early for a run on Lake Wakatipu with The Remarkables (a favorite site of Bev’s) glowing in the dawn light. On the return leg, at a scenic spot on the lake, I stopped running and asked Bev to marry me. Accounts differ at this point, but I do know that after asking her, I did need to say “yes, I’m serious.” Thankfully, she agreed to spend the rest of her life with me and I’ve been rewarded every single day since. We bought an $8 stone ring at a local shop and, later that evening, celebrated with our new Kiwi friends by eating Ferg Burgers and sipping champagne. The rest, as the saying goes, is history. We married a few months later with the BEST WEDDING EVER and I still wake up every day pinching myself. Finding your voice and living your life out loud leads to Remarkable rewards! And to the love of my life, thank you for saying yes.

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Sealing it with a kiss. Yes!
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Note the fancy engagement ring

I DO Trail Run Photos

DSC_6234It’s been called the Event of the Year and I’m not talking about a royal baby – king, shming. Millions of women will pop out babies this year. Only one woman ran six miles of trails with a veil attached to her running visor before sprinting down the “aisle” to an unscheduled performance of “Here Comes The Bride” by the Plastic Kazoo Band.

Here are the photos of the best day EVER (including “official” race photos on the trail) – enjoy! They’re also accessible in our photo gallery to the right.

The I DO Trail Run

June 23, 2013

It is a day I will never forget.  It was a day filled with joy, love, happiness, laughter, and friendship.  It was the day I married my best friend in the company of friends and family in a beautiful park.

When I agreed to marry Greg after he proposed in New Zealand, I assumed we would get married before a justice of the peace.  I just wanted to be married to him and didn’t need a big to-do.  And, I didn’t want to wear a dress!  When a friend suggested that those who loved us might want to share in the celebration of our union, I decided a small, drama free wedding would be fun.  Greg and I kicked around some ideas and decided a trail run, brief ceremony, and low-key reception at Lake Chabot Regional Park would be just the ticket.

The only problem:  I suffer from a fair amount of social anxiety.  The idea of planning and hosting a party causes my hands to sweat.  Way, way too stressful.  The answer:  my amazing neighbor, Marci, who can plan a successful party in seconds flat and never stresses about socializing.  That girl can walk into a room full of strangers, know everyone within minutes, and leave with several new life long friends.

Marci offered to plan our wedding.  Early on, she asked how many details I wanted to know.  As few as possible was my answer as I hoped being kept in the dark would help keep me from stressing out.  I was completely comfortable leaving it in her hands and just writing checks to cover the costs.  I happily completed my assigned tasks:  getting the running shirts for all involved in the wedding, ordering bracelets for favors, and sending out the E-vite.

When the day arrived, I quickly realized Marci and her assistants had gone above and beyond for us.  Wow!  Everything was beautiful and so much attention had been paid to the smallest of details.  I was speechless – yes, me….speechless.

I remember standing on the picnic table so I could address the crowd and get us all running/jogging/walking in the right direction.  As I looked out upon all our friends, it was impossible not to be overwhelmed with gratitude for all those who came out to celebrate with Greg and me.  I remember thinking I was so damn lucky and so, so grateful.  As someone who grew up in a home seriously lacking in love, I figured I must have done something right to be on the receiving end of all this love now.  It filled my heart beyond capacity.

The ceremony completely captured what Greg and I are as individuals and as a couple.  It was truly “us”.  My face hurt the next day from constantly smiling.  I think that was a sign of success.

My only regret is that Greg’s family was too far away to make the trip.  I know they were all there in spirit and their best wishes were beautifully woven into the ceremony by our talented officiant, Chris.  I look forward to celebrating with them this summer.

(Just for info: we will be posting a wedding day photo album on this blog when we are done gathering all the photos.  Feel free to subscribe to the blog so you get an e-mail notification when this happens.)

I just want to say thank you to everyone who made the day so awesome.  To Marci, Michael, Miguel, Chris O, Christie, Michelle, Dina, Ruth, Mary Kay, Chester, Leslie, Heather, Naomi, Sandie, Dave, Al, Chris W, and Vinnie.  To Team Clubsporters, RePeeters, Lake Chabot Running Peeps, HPD’ers, our biking buddies, Fab Five +1‘ers, GNO’ers, and all our other friends.  To Bosco, Bodie, Kora, Finn, Oscar, Maximus, Jack and Buddy (in spirit).  And, lastly, to my husband, who makes me feel loved every minute of every day.  It’s an honor to wear this ring.

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Nervous? Who Me?

Bev and I are a week away from tying the knot, getting hitched, taking the plunge, and vowing to stick together even when we can no longer run, bike, hike, climb, kayak, swim, paddle board, bungee jump, skydive, or rappel. Friends have asked if I’m nervous, which strikes me as a funny question to ask someone who doesn’t think twice about throwing himself off a 140’ bridge, tethered only by a springy rope. Let’s face it – if I wasn’t nervous about walking backwards down the outside of a 40-story hotel in San Francisco’s Union Square, marrying my best friend and soulmate isn’t going to rattle me.

Some of the guests are looking equally at ease about the whole thing. Our friend Bodie held his own dress rehearsal, appearing confident and relaxed. Note the bow tie.

 

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